As a woman, have you thought about what you need to see in your man’s eyes when he looks at you? And depending on what you see, are you happy? pissed off? sad? puzzled?
I have a friend who is dating a great guy – on paper. He’s smart, down-to-earth, eh, not so funny, but really smart, hardworking and ambitious. He has told her “I love you”, has planned lovely romantic dates. Yet, she doesn’t see devotion in his eyes. She doesn’t feel she’s the most important person in/aspect of his life.
Is that worth ending a relationship over? I think she has a great guy — deal with it. Then I see the facebook post about 92 year old man singing to his 93 year old wife (who is in hospice) and I fiercely want this for her!
I want it for myself.
This man may have sexually desired his wife (Ihope) but, according to this video, his love is cherishing. He is devoted to her and his actions are focused on letting her know 1) he is by her side and 2) she is loved. To be seen fully yet loved unconditionally. Would you be able to do this?
To feel so comforted and loved for no reason other than I am me. To love someone because he’s him. To think I can cherish someone for the rest of our lives.
protect and care for (someone) lovingly.“he cared for me beyond measure and cherished me in his heart”
Which do you think you need in your life? To be Desired? To be Cherished? What do you think you need or you
How does that equal love to you? Or does it?